1. It would be totally unreasonable to expect the man you are with to always choose time with you over time with his friends, but if your guy loves you, he'll want to spend some quality time with you. A guy who doesn't care about your feelings or whether or not you think he is a jerk will have no problem blowing you off when he wants to do something else.
2. If he introduces you to his friends or you notice that he brings his friends around when you are around, then it's a very good sign. Next, the family. When a man is ready to introduce you to his parents, he probably really cares about you. Don’t be too surprised if one day he pops the question during a family dinner or get together – bringing you so close to his parents and siblings means he is really being serious about your relationship, and therefore whether he loves you or not shouldn’t even be up for discussion. If, on the other hand, he refuses to take you near his family, this guy is probably not as into you as he says he is.
3.How can you really show a person your love if you don’t hug and kiss them when you feel like it? If your man is not afraid to show you some sugar whenever you’re hanging out with your friends or you’re going out for drinks, just the two of you, you can say you’re one step closer to discovering he really loves you. He must be able to hold your hand when in public, he must be able to kiss and hug you whether you are alone in your bedroom or in the streets. Again, he might be shy and kissing while people are staring might not be exactly his thing. But no one says you have to French-kiss him, just see if he is able to kiss you softly on the lips or give you a kiss on the cheek every once in a while. If he does that and you see pleasure and love in his eyes while he’s doing it you might found your love.
4.He calls you for no reason. Sometimes there’s nothing nicer than having someone call you at the end of a hard day just to have a chat. The fact that he thought to call you when he were on his way to home, or cooking dinner, can make you feel warm and fuzzy inside. If he calls you without an agenda, you know you’ve got a keeper.
5. If you’re lying in bed, or brushing your teeth, or cooking your dinner and your man suddenly looks dreamy-eyed and asks you how many kids you want, you may as well hang up that sports kit because lady, you aren’t going to be a player for long; your boyfriend loves you. If your man keeps asking you questions about your future as a couple or your hopes and dreams for life, chances are he’s sussing out whether you’re wife material and whether his emotional investment will pay off.
6. If you need to know whether your boyfriend loves you or whether he thinks of you as another fling, you should pay attention to those times he asks you for advice. When guys are single they become very independent and make lots of decisions for themselves. However, when men get comfortable in a relationship they give up some of this independence and begin to take on their partners’ views and opinions.
7. Finally, when he admits that he loves you, that is when you know for sure that he does. Most of the time (not all, but most), if a guy finally tells his girlfriend that he loves her, it is a big deal for him. Guys have a very difficult time expressing their feelings, keep that in mind.